Monday 9 March 2015

True:Being A Woman Is The Toughest Job On Earth.(MUST READ)

If you don't get married early, its your fault for not accepting suitors.
If you get married to a rich man, you are a gold digger.
If you get married to a poor man, you are a desperado.
If your husband turns you onto a punching bag, you are not submissive enough.
If your husband cheats on you its because you don't satisfy him or look beautiful enough.
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If you pursue your dreams, you are defiant, you want to be a man.
If the family is starving and you work hard to help, you are proud.
If you give your husband advice, how dare you! Be silent where men speak!
If you rise ahead of him career wise, you stole his start or slept with your bosses.
If you get pregnant after consensual sex you are a fool. Why didn't you use a condom.

If you get old and wrinkled, you are old cargo.
If you grow big tummy after multiple childbirths, you are a fat cow.
If you grow facial hair, you are a witch.
If your husband dies, you killed him no matter what the autopsy says.
If your children die of Ebola, small pox or whatever, it doesn't matter. You ate them.
If you get raped, you seduced the men.

If you die, your mother, mother-in-law, sister, sister-in-law, or daughter or aunties or grand mothers, killed you.

We carry so much weight on our shoulders it hurts to walk...and when we go to sleep at night the weight settles on the chest. When we wake up we lift it again on our heads without knowing. Its not that we like to carry the weight. It is the world that put it on us. With every woman you beat, every woman you rape, or belittle you enslave your mother, sister, wife and daughter. When you enslave us, you enslave yourself.

Thanks Idowu....

4 comments:

  1. Thanks for sharing this . I will continue to be myself and stay strong knowing that no matter what I do, I can't please anyone.

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  2. Love this. Love myself more after reading this.

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  3. Life o life....

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